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Should I Stay or Should I Go?
Why you need stay interviews to keep your talent!

The Clash once asked, "Should I Stay or Should I Go?" And while they may have been talking about a romantic relationship, this question is also one that employees ask themselves regularly. If you're a manager or business owner, you know that keeping talented employees is fundamental to success. But how do you know what keeps them engaged and motivated? The answer lies in "stay interviews."
What are Stay Interviews?
Stay interviews are one-on-one conversations between employees and their managers. The purpose of stay interviews is to understand what motivates and interests employees, what they enjoy about their job, and what might cause them to consider leaving. By having these conversations, managers can act upon the feedback to make the relevant changes and keep their employees happy and engaged.
The Importance of Retaining Talent
Retaining talented employees is crucial for the success of any organisation. The cost of replacing an employee can be high, not just financially, but in terms of lost productivity, knowledge, and culture. But what makes employees want to stay? It's not just about the paycheck (well, not always 😄). Employees want to feel valued, challenged, and supported in their career goals. Stay interviews provide an opportunity to find out what your employees need to feel satisfied and fulfilled in their jobs now.
How to Conduct a Successful Stay Interview
To conduct a successful stay interview, managers should lead the conversation and be clear about the purpose of the interview. The focus should be on the employee, not just on retaining talent for the company's benefit. Employees are savvy and if your approach seems disingenuous or underhanded, it will have a negative effect. Ask open-ended questions to encourage employees to share their thoughts and feelings. And remember, stay interviews are proactive, not reactive. Don't wait until an employee has already handed in their notice to have these conversations.
What You Can Learn from Stay Interviews
Stay interviews can provide valuable insights into what your employees need to stay engaged, challenged, and motivated. You may find that your employees value opportunities for professional development or work-life balance. They may have concerns about their current role, the future of the company, or team dynamics. The outcomes of the interview should arm you with the knowledge to change or implement new initiatives to keep your employees happy and engaged, reducing turnover and increasing productivity.
Conclusion:
In conclusion, if you're asking yourself, "Should I Stay or Should I Go?" as an employee, or as a manager trying to keep your talented staff, the answer is clear. You need to implement stay interviews. In my day job as a recruitment consultant, I am constantly speaking with people who have moved or are considering a move, because of minor or small issues in their workplaces that have festered (by not being addressed) and become big issues 💥. As an employer, if you work hard to engage, recruit and hire the best talent, then you should think, how do I keep that talent engaged and valued? Research shows that the ability to hire and keep talented employees is crucial for the success of any organisation and a massive competitive advantage. Stay interviews while not a silver bullet should be part of your retention strategy. So start having those conversations today and watch your talent stay and thrive.
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